Tuesday, August 2, 2011

How do I deal with what my boyfriend is putting me through? read what he wrote....?

Sounds like to me he has lost interest in the relationship and he was bored with his old life so taking this job has brighten his life up some. I know its hard but if he want spend time with you and is always making excuses then its time to move on. I've been there and trust me you can't make him stay and trying to will only hurt you more. He's moved on and so should you I'm 24 and I tried everything in the book to keep my ex he worked 6 days a week at his new job never had time for me or his daughter that we had together but always had time for his friends after work. You got to realize that you can't change him back to the way he was no matter how much you want to. For whatever reason he has choose to be like this and there's nothing you can do about it. I know it will be hard for your daughter but moving on is the best thing to do. I use to cry and beg him to spend time with me and our daughter but he just wouldn't so I left him and It was hard at first but now I'm doing a lot better and you will to. In time you will heal and it wont bother you as bad. But staying and thinking he will change and will go back to his old self will only hurt you more when you realize he is who he is now and no one can change that. Keep your head up and start looking for someone who doesn't act all stuck up just b/c they got a new job. Good luck

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